Couples & Marriage Counselling

Couples Counselling in Langley & Surrey, BC

Reconnect to yourself and each other

Relationships take work. They’re not like the movies or your friend’s social media feeds.

We know when you met your partner, it was all about late-night talks and dying to spend every minute together. Fast forward to now, you have a partner, but it feels like you're doing this alone. 

If someone had told you your relationship was going to feel like something you had to fix, you might not have believed them. But now, it feels like you and your partner are having conflicts about the same things over and over again and never resolve anything. It feels like a losing battle. 

The hardest part about it all is that rather than spending your evenings doing separate things, you want to reconnect and enjoy one another again. 

Rather than shout, you want to be able to talk through things without feeling unheard, criticized or disrespected. 

And rather than counting scores, you want to feel like a team working together.

You’re not alone in doubting your relationship or seeking help to make it better. But you are already taking the first step to making an improvement.

If both partners are willing to be open and commit to the process of healing, you can get back to how you used to be and grow old together like you imagined. The checklists and obligations in your life don’t have to keep you from feeling the love and connection you used to have. You can both find ways to communicate, show affection, and appreciate each other. Despite the number of things you have to balance to keep the life you’ve built on course.

That’s where Panorama Wellness comes in. 

We provide a safe space where couples can be honest without conflict and help you navigate difficult conversations in a way that feels more effective.

Having a neutral party to listen and get to the root of the issues at play can help you process your thoughts and emotions, as well as skills to manage them in a healthier way. This helps individuals and couples come to a new understanding and move forward in your relationship with confidence.

At Panorama Wellness, we believe every couple deserves access to quality care. Our multi-disciplinary team of therapists each have a specialist skill set to offer and tailor their approach to your relationship. This way, they can be purposeful about meeting you where you are in your healing process.

Tools You Will Develop

Listen to and support one another in a healthy way

Understand how the past events in your life are affecting your relationship today

Learn how to reignite the passion you once had for each other

Prioritize one another in the midst of a busy life

Move away from criticism and shame and understand how your partner’s past informs their present

Understand when/if to walk away

It doesn’t have to feel like a battle. It can feel like love again.